Dating Tips For Men: A Mindset Every Guy Who's Good With Women Has...And You Can Develop

By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction

A few months ago a girl came to my house

selling magazine subscriptions. When I

opened the door and hinted a willingness to

hear her spiel, she looked surprised. I

think I was the first person in my

neighborhood to actually listen to her. Most

people hate and avoid at all costs

door-to-door solicitors, fearing that

they'll be conned and swindled into buying

their wares. Not me. I love hearing a

salesman's pitch. Probably because - as

someone who's done a lot of sales - I take

a personal interest in analyzing other's

attempts at persuading me.

She was offering subscriptions to magazines

I enjoy reading. The money was going toward

helping troubled youth get into College - a

cause I wholeheartedly support!

But she would have had to hold me at gunpoint

to get even a single penny out of me. Was I

skeptical about where the magazine profits

were really going? Nope. I felt she was

completely honest with me.

Why couldn't she get me to crack? Am I a

cheap bastard? I can be - yet I would have

bought from her. But there was something

holding me back. Was it her sale's

presentation? For the most part - no! The

pitch she splurted out of her fast moving

lips was well crafted and persuasive. I

was slightly turned off by her plowing

through the sale's presentation at a

Speedy Gonzalez gait, sprinkled with

jerky, contrived hand gestures. Although,

not to the tune of dissuading me from

forking over the cash. What stopped me

from giving up the moolah was something

else...

She had a Weak Intent. She was lumbered

with the desire to make a quick sale - I

could see it her puppy dog eyes. She even

said all the necessary things to get me to

buy. Yet something was entirely lacking...

She didn't believe I would buy from her.

Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.

Read this sentence ten times aloud. Brand

your forehead with it if you have to. Do

whatever you have to do to internalize the

adage. This is something that all men who

are amazing with women get.

Women are repulsed by the needy. Human

beings across the board are repulsed by

the needy. This, I think, is part of our

biological hardwiring. Neediness is a

one-way ticket to squandering all possible

success with women. Do whatever you need

to do to purge yourself of it.

I'm the ex world champion at acting needy

with women. I had the desire to succeed

with them but not the belief.

It wasn't only the smart women who were

onto my weakness, the borderline dummies

were too. These girls weren't stupid enough

to get a handicapped parking space. And

were too smart to qualify for the

Special Olympics Games. But not by much.

If you look on their bookshelves, you'll

probably only find the two books: How to

strip and a made-easy-for-children version

of the bible. Even these girls, however,

could see, hear, feel, and smell my

weakness. I had the desire to succeed with

them but not the belief. I had a Weak

Intent. And as you now know...

Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.

These women saw me as one needy bitch -

and they were right.

Everything changed when I started

developing a mindset that every man who's

exceptional with women has: A Strong

Intent.

You might be thinking: "Hmm...what exactly

is a Strong Intent?"

Desire in the presence of belief is having

a Strong Intent. But I'm not talking about

any run-of-the-mill belief. The belief

has to be the unwavering certainty that

you'll achieve your intended outcome.

You could have all of the skills and

desire in the world but without the

unwavering certainty that you'll get what

you want, you're doomed.

One thing that has helped me tremendously

is rehearsing my intended outcome. So,

for example, if your goal is to kiss women

you've just met, maybe, rehearse in your

mind women brimming with the desire to

kiss you. Imagine women feeling elated

that you finally kissed them. Think of

them passionately kissing you back. The

more you rehearse these outcomes the more

unwavering your belief becomes that women

are yearning and willing to kiss you.

Here's a quick way of testing right now

how unwavering your beliefs are. If your

intended outcome, for example, was to

engage very beautiful in conversation,

could you follow through?

Even if you answered, "yes," it doesn't

mean you have the unwavering belief that

you can engage beautiful women.

Thinking you can do something is very

different from having the unwavering belief

that you can do something.

Years ago, for example, I was at a seminar

where the teacher purported to give men

confidence. Afterwards, many of the

attendees felt, they could talk to any

woman. But when push came to shove, I

discovered, they were scared to death of

approaching women. These men felt confident

yet had no confidence.

Here's a better test you can do right now.

Close your eyes and imagine a beautiful

woman five feat away from you. Go talk

to her right now without any hesitation.

Don't wait. Do it now. If you can't or feel

yourself wanting to wait a few minutes, you

don't yet have the unwavering belief. You

don't yet have the confidence. You don't

yet have a Strong Intent. But you can.

I can't even begin to describe to you just

how much success with women you're missing

out on by not having a Strong Intent. When

I was first learning how to attract women

I was frustrated because almost all of the

available material was geared toward making

men feel confident and think they could

accomplish their goals with women. But I

soon found out, to my chagrin, this

wasn't good enough. If I wanted to make my

dreams come true, I realized, I needed to

develop real confidence and the unwavering

beliefs that I could accomplish my goals. I

developed a fool-proof system, giving me

the tools to step-by-step develop

unwavering beliefs, confidence, and a

powerful intent, leading to massive

success with women. In my book you'll gain

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to you for the rest of your life. This,

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anywhere else in the world - period! Just

think what it will be like to finally have

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in the driver's seat while interacting with

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