I've got a question for you: Does bragging to women work?
If your answer is "yes," you're right and you're gonna
like what I'm about to tell you.
If your answer is "no," keep reading by clicking here
My rationale might surprise you.
Sunday, November 27, 2005
Thursday, November 10, 2005
An Attraction Secret I Learned From A Frog...
Yes, that's right...
I learned an attraction secret from a frog... and there's a good chance this secret will instantly double your success with women.
Years ago a friend of mine told me a story about a bunch of little frogs who decided to have a race up a huge tower.
Whomever hops to the top of the tower first would be the winner, they determined.
A huge crowd gathered around the little frogs. No one believed the tiny frogs even had a chance at making it to the top of the tower.
People from the crowd heckled the little guys with: "You're way too small to climb that tower, you'll never make it!"
And guess what?
Heaps of frogs slid off the tower.
The crowd heckled louder, and the rest of the frogs tumbled down - except for one. The crowd continued to berate and snicker at him. But he slogged his way to the top.
Do you know why?
Click here to find out...
I learned an attraction secret from a frog... and there's a good chance this secret will instantly double your success with women.
Years ago a friend of mine told me a story about a bunch of little frogs who decided to have a race up a huge tower.
Whomever hops to the top of the tower first would be the winner, they determined.
A huge crowd gathered around the little frogs. No one believed the tiny frogs even had a chance at making it to the top of the tower.
People from the crowd heckled the little guys with: "You're way too small to climb that tower, you'll never make it!"
And guess what?
Heaps of frogs slid off the tower.
The crowd heckled louder, and the rest of the frogs tumbled down - except for one. The crowd continued to berate and snicker at him. But he slogged his way to the top.
Do you know why?
Click here to find out...
Monday, October 31, 2005
A Misconception Almost All Men Have... And An Attraction Secret Few Men Know...
I want to warn you my friend...
If you're not game for trying something different from what you're currently doing with women, stop reading right now. Go away. This letter isn't for the closed-minded.
But... If you're up for learning something new, you're in luck because... in a minute I'm going to reveal to you a secret for attracting women almost no one knows... and there's a good possibility it'll increase your current success with women by 400%.
I'd actually be shocked if you know this secret.
Have you ever noticed how some of the things people think will help them, end up hurt them... and vice versa?
For example...
Most people believe Stannous Fluoride - the stuff found in many popular toothpaste brands - is good for them. They think it fights cavities. Maybe so. But it's made from recycled tin - yuck!
Some think bottled water is healthy. But Evian, one of the most popular brands of bottled water, spells Naïve backwards.
Likewise, there's a misconception about attracting women most men have...
Click here to find out what it is...
If you're not game for trying something different from what you're currently doing with women, stop reading right now. Go away. This letter isn't for the closed-minded.
But... If you're up for learning something new, you're in luck because... in a minute I'm going to reveal to you a secret for attracting women almost no one knows... and there's a good possibility it'll increase your current success with women by 400%.
I'd actually be shocked if you know this secret.
Have you ever noticed how some of the things people think will help them, end up hurt them... and vice versa?
For example...
Most people believe Stannous Fluoride - the stuff found in many popular toothpaste brands - is good for them. They think it fights cavities. Maybe so. But it's made from recycled tin - yuck!
Some think bottled water is healthy. But Evian, one of the most popular brands of bottled water, spells Naïve backwards.
Likewise, there's a misconception about attracting women most men have...
Click here to find out what it is...
Wednesday, August 31, 2005
How To Kiss A Woman... Without Rejection
By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction
If there was a secret to kissing women you desired without rejection, would you want to know more about it?
Of course you would. What heterosexual male that's sane wouldn't?
Let's up the ante, my friend...
What if a secret method existed for kissing attractive women minutes after meeting them without rejection?
Would that pique your curiosity?
Maybe you're feeling a bit skeptical? You might be thinking, "Yeah right," or "This seems too good to be true."?
But if you were lucky enough to get your hands on a simple secret that gave you the power to kiss every woman you desired without rejection, looking back, wouldn't you be glad you took a chance by learning this secret?
The good news for you is...
A few years back I stumbled onto, almost by accident, a method for kissing women without rejection.
There's a good chance you've never seen or heard or read about what I'm going to share with you.
Some of my closest friends believe it's the most power technology for getting intimate with a woman.
One refers to it as "The real Jedi mind stuff."
You'll have to make that decision for yourself.
Before I reveal this method to you, I want share with you a quick story.
I wasn't born with these skills. I remember, back in the day I'd go out with a woman, drag her back to my place, and then...
Talk All Night Without Ever Kissing Her...
Even When I Had An Inkling That She Liked Me...
...because I was afraid she'd reject me.
Lest she'd turn my ego into a meat by-product to be ground up and pooped out by the Num Num snack factory.
Here's a list of a few of the thoughts that would snake into my brain when I felt like kissing a woman...
- If she rejects me, it means she feels no attraction toward me.
- If she rejects me I'll never ever have a chance with her again.
- If she rejects me it'll confirm that I'm not able to attract women.
- If she rejects me the world will come to an end.
Back then, my success rate at kissing women was close to 100%...
...because I'd only go in for the kiss when I felt certain she wanted to kiss me... which, unfortunately, wasn't very often.
I perused books on body language, struggling to figure out all of the signs women display when they feel attraction toward a man.
Those books, alas, frustrated me more.
Women, I lamented, almost never display these signs around me.
On rare occasion women did display attraction signals in my presence.
But I still didn't feel certain they were attracted to me.
If they weren't putting their little paws all over me and overtly telling me, "I find you sexy," I wasn't convinced they found me any more appealing than a big smelly fart.
Have you ever had similar thoughts?
Hmm. Interesting.
If you had the power to kiss any woman you desired without rejection...
- which woman (or women) would you kiss?
- what types of women would you kiss?
And if you had the power to kiss the women you wanted, how would that positively impact your life?
Before I disclose my secret method to you, I want to share with YOU some of the mindsets YOU need to make what you're about to learn work...
Mindset # 1: If She Doesn't Kiss You Back, It's No Big Deal...
Attractive women are used to men of all shapes and sizes making physical passes at them.
They're used to letting men know they aren't interested.
If you try to kiss a woman and she pushes you away, DON'T squawk like a b*itch or I'll conk you upside the head.
Women aren't going to view you as a grotesque piece of dog poo for acting like a man. In fact, they'll appreciate it.
You've got more to lose, my friend, from not kissing her.
Attractive women know when men want to kiss them but feel scared. This turns women off - big time.
My advice: If you want to kiss a woman but feel scared, lean over and kiss her - ASAP.
You're better off.
Mindset # 2: You've Gotta Believe She Wants To Kiss You...
If you've read my book you're aware that what you put out into the universe is what you'll get back.
You know: What the thinker thinks, the prover proves.
This couldn't apply more to kissing women.
Believing a woman wants to kiss YOU is a surefire way to skyrocket the probability that she'll return your kiss.
Women are experts at figuring out just how confident (or insecure) a man is.
Desire in the absence of the belief that a woman wants you is neediness. Women feel no attraction toward needy men.
When you lean in to kiss a woman while believing she doesn't want to kiss you back, you're setting yourself up for rejection.
Mindset # 3: Develop A Willingness To Push Your Comfort Level...
Maybe you've studied a library full of books on body language, memorizing all of the signs indicating that women feel attraction toward a man.
But perhaps when women display these attraction signals you don't feel, in your heart of hearts, they're attracted to you. I dunno?
This used to describe me to a tee.
What I've discovered is that when women display these attraction signals it's imperative to push your comfort level by going in for the kiss... even if you hear your gut reaction shouting, "She feels no attraction for YOU!"
When you, for example, read or hear about these attraction signals, it becomes a possibility in your mind that when women display these signals, they feel attraction toward YOU.
But when a woman displays the attraction signals and YOU get up the gall to kiss her and she kisses you back, something magical happens...
It Becomes Your Reality That When Women Display These Signals, They Feel Attraction
Toward You.
Your belief transforms from mere possibility into your full fledged reality.
Now for the main course: Swinggcat's Method For Kissing Women... Without Rejection.
Has a woman ever displayed attraction signals toward you - twirling her hair, touching you, giggling like a four year old child, giving you that "F me now you big boy" look... and so on - yet when you dove in for the kiss, to the horror of your self-esteem, she pushed you away?
If this hasn't happened to you, I'm willing to bet at some point during your life it will.
Even when a woman pushes you away, there's still a good possibility she feels attraction toward you.
"Then why would she push me away?" you might be asking yourself.
Because, my friend, she was playing a special type of attraction game (or a mating ritual) with You.
Socially and sexually adept women intuitively grasp the rules of this game. This game is a form of what I call "Push/Pull."
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in.
Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.
Imagine, to get a feel for this, a teacher who's critical toward one of his students. Once in a blue moon, however, he feeds them a sliver of praise.
The student feels elated.
But if he praises the student constantly, the emotional impact will lessen because...
He Will Not Be Creating The Needed Emotional Space.
Women understand this because this is how they get aroused.
When a man, for example, does something to stimulate a woman... and then stops and then starts again, she becomes exponentially more aroused. This is "Sexual Push/Pull."
Let's push forward into the attraction trenches...
GIVING WOMEN "THE LOOK"...
When you want to kiss a woman, give her "the look."
Do you know what "the look" is?
It's dominant with a dash of playfulness. A carnal gesture used to strip away all pretenses, leaving her psychically naked and vulnerable.
The dominant part reveals the little girl in her.
The playful part brings out the innocent little boy in you - think of the enthusiasm and the excitement little kids have about going to a toy store or to Disneyland.
The look communicates to women: "No ifs ands or buts about it, we're gonna kiss. And it is gonna be a lot of fun for the both of us."
Inside my audio course you'll get the full scoop on developing "the look."
click here
INTRUDING THEIR PERSONAL BUBBLE...
You also need to intrude a woman's personal bubble. All women have a personal bubble.
And usually they only let people they are intimate with or close to into their personal bubble.
If you, however, couple intruding a woman's personal bubble with giving her "the look," she'll almost always let you in.
Once a woman accepts a man in her personal space, she views him as someone she's intimate with or is open to becoming intimate with.
MAKING PHYSICAL CONTACT...
Another piece of the puzzle is getting physical contact with a woman. You need to be touching her in some way.
For me, I like holding their hands or putting my hand on the sacrum of their back.
Inside my audio course you'll learn several secrets for making physical contact with a woman in way that she'll accept and enjoy.
click here
When you combine "the look," with touch and with intruding her personal bubble, something magical happens...
She feels a rush of attraction moving through her body.
She's paralyzed. Stupefied. Titillated. Aroused. In a trance like state.
You move in closer to her, suggesting you're about to kiss her.
Then you pause, yet continue to give her The Look.
You've sparked the fire of an emotional and sexual connection in her body and mind. She's excited and compelled to move in closer to you.
Then you push her away, making her feel the moment never happened. The emotional and sexual connection? Just a figment of her imagination.
Then you pull her in again, bringing back that emotional and sexual connection. Then push her away.
At this point she might feel she's crazy or think of herself as a nut job who forgot to take her lithium.
She might - and this has happened to me many times - grab you and start ravenously kissing you.
If she doesn't grab you, grab her and start passionately kissing her.
There's no rejection because it's a game. I've used this method successfully on women who flat out told me from the get-go, they felt no attraction toward me.
Some men might think this is cruel to put women through.
But these men just don't get it.
It's the moral equivalent of killing a car, chopping off the head of a Barbie doll, or erasing a computer disk.
Women love this... because it shows them that you're in control of your desires and demonstrates that you understand how they get aroused.
But this doesn't even scratch the surface of the attraction secrets you'll get your hands on inside my brand new audio course.
Inside you'll discover...
- Nine powerful ways to kiss a woman you've just met (even if you're a ladies man, I'm almost certain you've neither seen nor heard these techniques).
- Two secrets compelling women to literally force you to hold onto their hands.
- A secret for getting intimate with a woman who specifically tells you that she's not interested in You.
- My secret formula for using challenges that compel women to kiss you.
- Two low risk role playing games specifically designed to quickly and effectively become intimate with women
- even if you sense they don't feel attraction for you.
- Body language secrets that not only build attraction inside women, but also emotionally drive them to get intimate with you.
This is only a tiny tiny sliver of what you'll learn inside my course. This knowledge took me many long hours of experimenting to discover. And you won't find these secrets anywhere else in the world.
If there's even a small part of you that wants to possess the power to get intimate with any woman you desire, then you owe it to yourself to get a world class education on attracting and getting intimate with women by grabbing a copy of my audio course right now.
click here
A final thought: Maybe you're thinking that you'll put off learning these skills for a few months because you're bogged down at work or financially strapped?
If you put off learning these skills now, there's a chance you'll put them off forever.
That's why my philosophy has always been: Live your dream life to its fullest."
That means equipping yourself with the skills and tools to live your dream life.
So take control of the life you want to start living by getting your hands on a copy of my audio course right now.
click here
And if you haven't picked up a copy of my ebook, do so.
click here
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat "Dr. of Attraction"
______________________________________________
Copyright 2005 Superior Living, Inc. All rights reserved."Swinggcat"
and "RealWorldSeduction" are trademarks of Superior Living, Inc.
If there was a secret to kissing women you desired without rejection, would you want to know more about it?
Of course you would. What heterosexual male that's sane wouldn't?
Let's up the ante, my friend...
What if a secret method existed for kissing attractive women minutes after meeting them without rejection?
Would that pique your curiosity?
Maybe you're feeling a bit skeptical? You might be thinking, "Yeah right," or "This seems too good to be true."?
But if you were lucky enough to get your hands on a simple secret that gave you the power to kiss every woman you desired without rejection, looking back, wouldn't you be glad you took a chance by learning this secret?
The good news for you is...
A few years back I stumbled onto, almost by accident, a method for kissing women without rejection.
There's a good chance you've never seen or heard or read about what I'm going to share with you.
Some of my closest friends believe it's the most power technology for getting intimate with a woman.
One refers to it as "The real Jedi mind stuff."
You'll have to make that decision for yourself.
Before I reveal this method to you, I want share with you a quick story.
I wasn't born with these skills. I remember, back in the day I'd go out with a woman, drag her back to my place, and then...
Talk All Night Without Ever Kissing Her...
Even When I Had An Inkling That She Liked Me...
...because I was afraid she'd reject me.
Lest she'd turn my ego into a meat by-product to be ground up and pooped out by the Num Num snack factory.
Here's a list of a few of the thoughts that would snake into my brain when I felt like kissing a woman...
- If she rejects me, it means she feels no attraction toward me.
- If she rejects me I'll never ever have a chance with her again.
- If she rejects me it'll confirm that I'm not able to attract women.
- If she rejects me the world will come to an end.
Back then, my success rate at kissing women was close to 100%...
...because I'd only go in for the kiss when I felt certain she wanted to kiss me... which, unfortunately, wasn't very often.
I perused books on body language, struggling to figure out all of the signs women display when they feel attraction toward a man.
Those books, alas, frustrated me more.
Women, I lamented, almost never display these signs around me.
On rare occasion women did display attraction signals in my presence.
But I still didn't feel certain they were attracted to me.
If they weren't putting their little paws all over me and overtly telling me, "I find you sexy," I wasn't convinced they found me any more appealing than a big smelly fart.
Have you ever had similar thoughts?
Hmm. Interesting.
If you had the power to kiss any woman you desired without rejection...
- which woman (or women) would you kiss?
- what types of women would you kiss?
And if you had the power to kiss the women you wanted, how would that positively impact your life?
Before I disclose my secret method to you, I want to share with YOU some of the mindsets YOU need to make what you're about to learn work...
Mindset # 1: If She Doesn't Kiss You Back, It's No Big Deal...
Attractive women are used to men of all shapes and sizes making physical passes at them.
They're used to letting men know they aren't interested.
If you try to kiss a woman and she pushes you away, DON'T squawk like a b*itch or I'll conk you upside the head.
Women aren't going to view you as a grotesque piece of dog poo for acting like a man. In fact, they'll appreciate it.
You've got more to lose, my friend, from not kissing her.
Attractive women know when men want to kiss them but feel scared. This turns women off - big time.
My advice: If you want to kiss a woman but feel scared, lean over and kiss her - ASAP.
You're better off.
Mindset # 2: You've Gotta Believe She Wants To Kiss You...
If you've read my book you're aware that what you put out into the universe is what you'll get back.
You know: What the thinker thinks, the prover proves.
This couldn't apply more to kissing women.
Believing a woman wants to kiss YOU is a surefire way to skyrocket the probability that she'll return your kiss.
Women are experts at figuring out just how confident (or insecure) a man is.
Desire in the absence of the belief that a woman wants you is neediness. Women feel no attraction toward needy men.
When you lean in to kiss a woman while believing she doesn't want to kiss you back, you're setting yourself up for rejection.
Mindset # 3: Develop A Willingness To Push Your Comfort Level...
Maybe you've studied a library full of books on body language, memorizing all of the signs indicating that women feel attraction toward a man.
But perhaps when women display these attraction signals you don't feel, in your heart of hearts, they're attracted to you. I dunno?
This used to describe me to a tee.
What I've discovered is that when women display these attraction signals it's imperative to push your comfort level by going in for the kiss... even if you hear your gut reaction shouting, "She feels no attraction for YOU!"
When you, for example, read or hear about these attraction signals, it becomes a possibility in your mind that when women display these signals, they feel attraction toward YOU.
But when a woman displays the attraction signals and YOU get up the gall to kiss her and she kisses you back, something magical happens...
It Becomes Your Reality That When Women Display These Signals, They Feel Attraction
Toward You.
Your belief transforms from mere possibility into your full fledged reality.
Now for the main course: Swinggcat's Method For Kissing Women... Without Rejection.
Has a woman ever displayed attraction signals toward you - twirling her hair, touching you, giggling like a four year old child, giving you that "F me now you big boy" look... and so on - yet when you dove in for the kiss, to the horror of your self-esteem, she pushed you away?
If this hasn't happened to you, I'm willing to bet at some point during your life it will.
Even when a woman pushes you away, there's still a good possibility she feels attraction toward you.
"Then why would she push me away?" you might be asking yourself.
Because, my friend, she was playing a special type of attraction game (or a mating ritual) with You.
Socially and sexually adept women intuitively grasp the rules of this game. This game is a form of what I call "Push/Pull."
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in.
Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.
Imagine, to get a feel for this, a teacher who's critical toward one of his students. Once in a blue moon, however, he feeds them a sliver of praise.
The student feels elated.
But if he praises the student constantly, the emotional impact will lessen because...
He Will Not Be Creating The Needed Emotional Space.
Women understand this because this is how they get aroused.
When a man, for example, does something to stimulate a woman... and then stops and then starts again, she becomes exponentially more aroused. This is "Sexual Push/Pull."
Let's push forward into the attraction trenches...
GIVING WOMEN "THE LOOK"...
When you want to kiss a woman, give her "the look."
Do you know what "the look" is?
It's dominant with a dash of playfulness. A carnal gesture used to strip away all pretenses, leaving her psychically naked and vulnerable.
The dominant part reveals the little girl in her.
The playful part brings out the innocent little boy in you - think of the enthusiasm and the excitement little kids have about going to a toy store or to Disneyland.
The look communicates to women: "No ifs ands or buts about it, we're gonna kiss. And it is gonna be a lot of fun for the both of us."
Inside my audio course you'll get the full scoop on developing "the look."
click here
INTRUDING THEIR PERSONAL BUBBLE...
You also need to intrude a woman's personal bubble. All women have a personal bubble.
And usually they only let people they are intimate with or close to into their personal bubble.
If you, however, couple intruding a woman's personal bubble with giving her "the look," she'll almost always let you in.
Once a woman accepts a man in her personal space, she views him as someone she's intimate with or is open to becoming intimate with.
MAKING PHYSICAL CONTACT...
Another piece of the puzzle is getting physical contact with a woman. You need to be touching her in some way.
For me, I like holding their hands or putting my hand on the sacrum of their back.
Inside my audio course you'll learn several secrets for making physical contact with a woman in way that she'll accept and enjoy.
click here
When you combine "the look," with touch and with intruding her personal bubble, something magical happens...
She feels a rush of attraction moving through her body.
She's paralyzed. Stupefied. Titillated. Aroused. In a trance like state.
You move in closer to her, suggesting you're about to kiss her.
Then you pause, yet continue to give her The Look.
You've sparked the fire of an emotional and sexual connection in her body and mind. She's excited and compelled to move in closer to you.
Then you push her away, making her feel the moment never happened. The emotional and sexual connection? Just a figment of her imagination.
Then you pull her in again, bringing back that emotional and sexual connection. Then push her away.
At this point she might feel she's crazy or think of herself as a nut job who forgot to take her lithium.
She might - and this has happened to me many times - grab you and start ravenously kissing you.
If she doesn't grab you, grab her and start passionately kissing her.
There's no rejection because it's a game. I've used this method successfully on women who flat out told me from the get-go, they felt no attraction toward me.
Some men might think this is cruel to put women through.
But these men just don't get it.
It's the moral equivalent of killing a car, chopping off the head of a Barbie doll, or erasing a computer disk.
Women love this... because it shows them that you're in control of your desires and demonstrates that you understand how they get aroused.
But this doesn't even scratch the surface of the attraction secrets you'll get your hands on inside my brand new audio course.
Inside you'll discover...
- Nine powerful ways to kiss a woman you've just met (even if you're a ladies man, I'm almost certain you've neither seen nor heard these techniques).
- Two secrets compelling women to literally force you to hold onto their hands.
- A secret for getting intimate with a woman who specifically tells you that she's not interested in You.
- My secret formula for using challenges that compel women to kiss you.
- Two low risk role playing games specifically designed to quickly and effectively become intimate with women
- even if you sense they don't feel attraction for you.
- Body language secrets that not only build attraction inside women, but also emotionally drive them to get intimate with you.
This is only a tiny tiny sliver of what you'll learn inside my course. This knowledge took me many long hours of experimenting to discover. And you won't find these secrets anywhere else in the world.
If there's even a small part of you that wants to possess the power to get intimate with any woman you desire, then you owe it to yourself to get a world class education on attracting and getting intimate with women by grabbing a copy of my audio course right now.
click here
A final thought: Maybe you're thinking that you'll put off learning these skills for a few months because you're bogged down at work or financially strapped?
If you put off learning these skills now, there's a chance you'll put them off forever.
That's why my philosophy has always been: Live your dream life to its fullest."
That means equipping yourself with the skills and tools to live your dream life.
So take control of the life you want to start living by getting your hands on a copy of my audio course right now.
click here
And if you haven't picked up a copy of my ebook, do so.
click here
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat "Dr. of Attraction"
______________________________________________
Copyright 2005 Superior Living, Inc. All rights reserved."Swinggcat"
and "RealWorldSeduction" are trademarks of Superior Living, Inc.
Friday, April 22, 2005
Do Women Want To Be Hit On?
By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction
I've got a question for you: Do women enjoy being hit on - or do they loath it?
If YOU know in your heart-of-hearts women enjoy it - maybe even love it - you're well on your way to experiencing massive success with da ladies. If you've got the belief, though, that women find men hitting on them more annoying than nails against a chalk board you're in big trouble.
But DON'T worry, my friend, because you're in the same position most men are.
Many a man believes women hate to be hit on - and rightfully so. If you, for example, frequent the bar or club scene you've probably overheard groups of women yapping away about how they fear and loath men hitting on them. But if this were so, women would wear shower curtains to bars and nightclubs. But they don't. They wear skimpy little outfits to maximize the amount of male attention they get.
I'm gonna return to this train of thought in a moment. But before I do, I want to shed some serious light on why believing women don't like to be hit on is akin to sentencing your penis to life in prison with no chance of parole. No hope of him ever vacationing in that warm, cuddly place he enjoys dancing into the wee hours of the morning to that old Digital Underground song "Do The Humpty Hump." The only love he's gonna get is from Bubba's nether regions.
Having this belief will cause a man to fear and loath hitting on women. He'll, for example, think to himself: "If I approach a woman she'll see me as an insidious little vermin she wants shunted from her reality."
If he does get up the gall to approach a woman, he's gonna have scrawled across his forehead in permanent red ink: "I'm so scared you'll reject me, I'm about to poop my pants."
This will communicate to her, he's a consummate gimp. Women feel no attraction for gimps. They feel attraction toward men who are a Prize they've gotta win over.
Okay. I think I've convinced you of how wretched this belief is. How it will pound any future opportunities with beautiful women into jelly.
But you might be having second thoughts. Maybe you're not fully convinced. So I'm gonna rewind and go back to my original train of thought: "The belief that women don't like to be hit on is crap." If this belief ever crossed paths with the Food & Drug Administration they'd stamp it with an official FDA seal saying: "100% Certified B.S."
Why do you think women spend so much time - sometimes hours - primping and preening themselves to go out to nightclubs and bars? Because they want to be hit on.
There's a school of thought, though, that says: "Women don't dress up for men; they do it for other women."
I think there's a grain of truth here but what this means is that women dress up to compete with other women for male attention. For male validation. In other words, one of the reasons women put time into primping and preening themselves is to compete for who gets hit on the most by men.
Many a woman will never explicitly admit she enjoys men hitting on her. If she did, she'd risk other women perceiving her as being at the top of the Slut-O-Meter. Or, even worse, people thinking she's a power hungry rhymes-with-witch. Wanting to be hit on is one of women's dirty little secrets.
Think of those stupid, gossip magazines - such as, Enquire and Star. Almost everyone talks about how stupid these publications are and claims to have never picked one up. This is B.S.
If most people didn't read them, their circulation wouldn't be so widespread.
The lurid reality is this: Most of us can't wait to get our dirty little paws all over these magazines while standing in line at the supermarket. A lot of us have too much pride to admit it. But almost all of us get picked up by our lapels and sucked into the contents of these papers.
Same holds true with women. Most women claim, they hate when guys hit on them. But most women love it. They can't get enough of it. But they'll never admit it. It's their dirty little secret.
When you make no apologies for hitting on a woman and convey the belief that by YOU hitting on her you're doing her a favor, it lets her know she's dealing with a real man who's a Prize she has to win over.
If YOU believe women want and love to be hit on, you're half way to massive success with women. All you've gotta do is learn the right way to hit on women.
You could go out and experiment. And if you're willing to put in a lot of work, you probably will become successful with women. But it's going to be a lot of work.
Or you could take the shortcut by cracking open my brain and hijacking all of my secrets that took me years of hard work and experimenting to discover. In just a few minutes YOU could start mastering these secrets, allowing you to leap over years of hard work and start experiencing the success you want to have with women.
You're still gonna have to put in some work. But truckloads less than if you didn't have these secrets. I wish I had access to this info when I was starting out. Click here to get your hands on the tools you need to start living your dream life with women.
Real World Seduction
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat"Dr. of Attraction"
I've got a question for you: Do women enjoy being hit on - or do they loath it?
If YOU know in your heart-of-hearts women enjoy it - maybe even love it - you're well on your way to experiencing massive success with da ladies. If you've got the belief, though, that women find men hitting on them more annoying than nails against a chalk board you're in big trouble.
But DON'T worry, my friend, because you're in the same position most men are.
Many a man believes women hate to be hit on - and rightfully so. If you, for example, frequent the bar or club scene you've probably overheard groups of women yapping away about how they fear and loath men hitting on them. But if this were so, women would wear shower curtains to bars and nightclubs. But they don't. They wear skimpy little outfits to maximize the amount of male attention they get.
I'm gonna return to this train of thought in a moment. But before I do, I want to shed some serious light on why believing women don't like to be hit on is akin to sentencing your penis to life in prison with no chance of parole. No hope of him ever vacationing in that warm, cuddly place he enjoys dancing into the wee hours of the morning to that old Digital Underground song "Do The Humpty Hump." The only love he's gonna get is from Bubba's nether regions.
Having this belief will cause a man to fear and loath hitting on women. He'll, for example, think to himself: "If I approach a woman she'll see me as an insidious little vermin she wants shunted from her reality."
If he does get up the gall to approach a woman, he's gonna have scrawled across his forehead in permanent red ink: "I'm so scared you'll reject me, I'm about to poop my pants."
This will communicate to her, he's a consummate gimp. Women feel no attraction for gimps. They feel attraction toward men who are a Prize they've gotta win over.
Okay. I think I've convinced you of how wretched this belief is. How it will pound any future opportunities with beautiful women into jelly.
But you might be having second thoughts. Maybe you're not fully convinced. So I'm gonna rewind and go back to my original train of thought: "The belief that women don't like to be hit on is crap." If this belief ever crossed paths with the Food & Drug Administration they'd stamp it with an official FDA seal saying: "100% Certified B.S."
Why do you think women spend so much time - sometimes hours - primping and preening themselves to go out to nightclubs and bars? Because they want to be hit on.
There's a school of thought, though, that says: "Women don't dress up for men; they do it for other women."
I think there's a grain of truth here but what this means is that women dress up to compete with other women for male attention. For male validation. In other words, one of the reasons women put time into primping and preening themselves is to compete for who gets hit on the most by men.
Many a woman will never explicitly admit she enjoys men hitting on her. If she did, she'd risk other women perceiving her as being at the top of the Slut-O-Meter. Or, even worse, people thinking she's a power hungry rhymes-with-witch. Wanting to be hit on is one of women's dirty little secrets.
Think of those stupid, gossip magazines - such as, Enquire and Star. Almost everyone talks about how stupid these publications are and claims to have never picked one up. This is B.S.
If most people didn't read them, their circulation wouldn't be so widespread.
The lurid reality is this: Most of us can't wait to get our dirty little paws all over these magazines while standing in line at the supermarket. A lot of us have too much pride to admit it. But almost all of us get picked up by our lapels and sucked into the contents of these papers.
Same holds true with women. Most women claim, they hate when guys hit on them. But most women love it. They can't get enough of it. But they'll never admit it. It's their dirty little secret.
When you make no apologies for hitting on a woman and convey the belief that by YOU hitting on her you're doing her a favor, it lets her know she's dealing with a real man who's a Prize she has to win over.
If YOU believe women want and love to be hit on, you're half way to massive success with women. All you've gotta do is learn the right way to hit on women.
You could go out and experiment. And if you're willing to put in a lot of work, you probably will become successful with women. But it's going to be a lot of work.
Or you could take the shortcut by cracking open my brain and hijacking all of my secrets that took me years of hard work and experimenting to discover. In just a few minutes YOU could start mastering these secrets, allowing you to leap over years of hard work and start experiencing the success you want to have with women.
You're still gonna have to put in some work. But truckloads less than if you didn't have these secrets. I wish I had access to this info when I was starting out. Click here to get your hands on the tools you need to start living your dream life with women.
Real World Seduction
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat"Dr. of Attraction"
Thursday, January 27, 2005
A Mindset Every Guy Who's Good With Women Has...And You Can Develop
By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction
A few months ago a girl came to my house
selling magazine subscriptions. When I
opened the door and hinted a willingness to
hear her spiel, she looked surprised. I
think I was the first person in my
neighborhood to actually listen to her. Most
people hate and avoid at all costs
door-to-door solicitors, fearing that
they'll be conned and swindled into buying
their wares. Not me. I love hearing a
salesman's pitch. Probably because - as
someone who's done a lot of sales - I take
a personal interest in analyzing other's
attempts at persuading me.
She was offering subscriptions to magazines
I enjoy reading. The money was going toward
helping troubled youth get into College - a
cause I wholeheartedly support!
But she would have had to hold me at gunpoint
to get even a single penny out of me. Was I
skeptical about where the magazine profits
were really going? Nope. I felt she was
completely honest with me.
Why couldn't she get me to crack? Am I a
cheap bastard? I can be - yet I would have
bought from her. But there was something
holding me back. Was it her sale's
presentation? For the most part - no! The
pitch she splurted out of her fast moving
lips was well crafted and persuasive. I
was slightly turned off by her plowing
through the sale's presentation at a
Speedy Gonzalez gait, sprinkled with
jerky, contrived hand gestures. Although,
not to the tune of dissuading me from
forking over the cash. What stopped me
from giving up the moolah was something
else...
She had a Weak Intent. She was lumbered
with the desire to make a quick sale - I
could see it her puppy dog eyes. She even
said all the necessary things to get me to
buy. Yet something was entirely lacking...
She didn't believe I would buy from her.
Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.
Read this sentence ten times aloud. Brand
your forehead with it if you have to. Do
whatever you have to do to internalize the
adage. This is something that all men who
are amazing with women get.
Women are repulsed by the needy. Human
beings across the board are repulsed by
the needy. This, I think, is part of our
biological hardwiring. Neediness is a
one-way ticket to squandering all possible
success with women. Do whatever you need
to do to purge yourself of it.
I'm the ex world champion at acting needy
with women. I had the desire to succeed
with them but not the belief.
It wasn't only the smart women who were
onto my weakness, the borderline dummies
were too. These girls weren't stupid enough
to get a handicapped parking space. And
were too smart to qualify for the
Special Olympics Games. But not by much.
If you look on their bookshelves, you'll
probably only find the two books: How to
strip and a made-easy-for-children version
of the bible. Even these girls, however,
could see, hear, feel, and smell my
weakness. I had the desire to succeed with
them but not the belief. I had a Weak
Intent. And as you now know...
Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.
These women saw me as one needy bitch -
and they were right.
Everything changed when I started
developing a mindset that every man who's
exceptional with women has: A Strong
Intent.
You might be thinking: "Hmm...what exactly
is a Strong Intent?"
Desire in the presence of belief is having
a Strong Intent. But I'm not talking about
any run-of-the-mill belief. The belief
has to be the unwavering certainty that
you'll achieve your intended outcome.
You could have all of the skills and
desire in the world but without the
unwavering certainty that you'll get what
you want, you're doomed.
One thing that has helped me tremendously
is rehearsing my intended outcome. So,
for example, if your goal is to kiss women
you've just met, maybe, rehearse in your
mind women brimming with the desire to
kiss you. Imagine women feeling elated
that you finally kissed them. Think of
them passionately kissing you back. The
more you rehearse these outcomes the more
unwavering your belief becomes that women
are yearning and willing to kiss you.
Here's a quick way of testing right now
how unwavering your beliefs are. If your
intended outcome, for example, was to
engage very beautiful in conversation,
could you follow through?
Even if you answered, "yes," it doesn't
mean you have the unwavering belief that
you can engage beautiful women.
Thinking you can do something is very
different from having the unwavering belief
that you can do something.
Years ago, for example, I was at a seminar
where the teacher purported to give men
confidence. Afterwards, many of the
attendees felt, they could talk to any
woman. But when push came to shove, I
discovered, they were scared to death of
approaching women. These men felt confident
yet had no confidence.
Here's a better test you can do right now.
Close your eyes and imagine a beautiful
woman five feat away from you. Go talk
to her right now without any hesitation.
Don't wait. Do it now. If you can't or feel
yourself wanting to wait a few minutes, you
don't yet have the unwavering belief. You
don't yet have the confidence. You don't
yet have a Strong Intent. But you can.
I can't even begin to describe to you just
how much success with women you're missing
out on by not having a Strong Intent. When
I was first learning how to attract women
I was frustrated because almost all of the
available material was geared toward making
men feel confident and think they could
accomplish their goals with women. But I
soon found out, to my chagrin, this
wasn't good enough. If I wanted to make my
dreams come true, I realized, I needed to
develop real confidence and the unwavering
beliefs that I could accomplish my goals. I
developed a fool-proof system, giving me
the tools to step-by-step develop
unwavering beliefs, confidence, and a
powerful intent, leading to massive
success with women. In my book you'll gain
access to this complete system,
irrevocability changing how women respond
to you for the rest of your life. This,
however, is only part of what you'll learn
from my book. You'll find hundreds of
powerful techniques, skills, and concepts
for attracting women you won't find
anywhere else in the world - period! Just
think what it will be like to finally have
the skills and confidence to plop your butt
in the driver's seat while interacting with
women, giving you the power and choice to
take your interactions with them in the
direction you want. Start getting this area
of your life taken care of right now by
downloading my book.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat
"Dr. Attraction"
______________________________________________
Copyright 2005 Superior Living Inc. All rights reserved. "Swinggcat" and
"RealWorldSeduction" are trademarks of SuperiorLiving Inc.
Tuesday, January 18, 2005
A Secret For Attracting Women Only The Pros Know...
By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction
Important Note: Read this newsletter in its entirety because you're going to learn an attraction secret that less than one percent of the world's male population knows about!
The other day I was talking to a buddy of mine, a real rock star at attracting women, about, of all things, Bill Gates. We werediscussing how Gates's financial problems are vastly different from the average person. Bill spends his days fretting over ways to either make more money or sustain the money he has, while most people concern themselves with making money in the first place. The man lives in a completely different reality from most of us. As we were chatting about Mr. Microsoft, something dawned on us...
When it comes to succeeding with women, we realized, we live in a very different reality from most men. In our reality, generating attraction in women is as easy as taking a crap - little effort, yet feels great! The skills and tools for generating attraction are so ingrained in us that when interacting with gorgeous women, there's not even an iota of hemming and hawing over how to attract them. Our focus, instead, is on: using the attraction we already know we can generate in them to get our intended outcome. If there's a woman we're interested in, for example, we don't stand there stiff and stupefied, like a dear caught in headlights, wondering: "How in the world are we going to attract her?" We know, if we just chat with her for a few minutes, it's inevitable that she'll feel attraction toward us. That's why our focus is entirely on, even if we haven't yet said a word to her, using the attraction we already know we can generate in her to get our intended outcome.
But this isn't the reality of most men. "What to do in the wake of a woman feeling attraction toward you?" is a thought never crossing the minds of many a man - and rightfully so...because most can't evengenerate attraction inside women in the first place.
A few nights ago, for example, I was at a little bar down the street from my house. My friend and I watched a forty-somethingyear-old distinguished looking business man play the big passive bottom to the verbal gang bang of two twenty-one year old looking, sponge-brained rhymes-with-witches. The poor bastard attempted to attract these women the only ways he knew how: buying them drinks, giving them lots of compliments, and, worst of all, asking them if they thought his clothes are cool. Funny enough, the more he did these things, the crueler the girls acted toward him. This man was a walking, talking attraction death sentence.
Can you relate? Have you ever felt, every attempt to attract a woman was actually turning her off? Or have you experienced the frustration of trying to figure out why a woman was more attracted to your friend than you? Or maybe you've brooded: Attracting women is as difficult as a blind man trying to find a bobby pin on an open football field. I dunno?
Each scenario represents the reality of not knowing how to attract women. A reality I personally overstayed my welcome. I, however, have moved far away from this reality and now reside in a place where attracting women is cake.
I'm going to share something with you only known, for the most part, by people living in a reality where attracting women is aseasy as turning on a light switch. This is something I don't think I've ever talked about in a newsletter...and might never again. If you've read my book, you'll know what this is. If you've gone out and experimented with it, there's a good chance you understand the power behind it.
Before I get into this I'm going to review some attraction basics.
Realize this: Most women march through life to the rhythms of some drum most men will never hear. My job is to get you to hear those rhythms, so, you can start experiencing massive success with women.Attraction is neither how a woman judges you nor what she prefers. Women prefer men who are tall and dark and lumbered with boa constrictor sized wieners. Think of the guys featured in Calvin Klein, Guess, and Abercrombie catalogues. That's what women prefer! This probably isn't you, and certainly isn't me. But that's okay...because...the men women prefer and the men they feel attraction for are as similar as apples are to oranges. Attraction has very little to with preference. Attraction, instead, is the emotion of a woman wanting and reaching and chasing for more of a man.
This is why you hear many a woman talking about her experiences of feeling attraction toward men whom she finds ugly or as not filling the quota for what she considers to be her type. When you've mastered the mechanisms behind generating attraction, what a woman physically thinks of you will be the least of your concerns.
One of the most effective ways I've found for generating massive amounts of attraction in women, emotionally compelling them to want and reach and chase for more of you, is what I call "Tension Loops." The best part of using Tension Loops is that they generate heaps of attraction in women...regardless of your current looks,social status, or bank account.
A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! Thestructure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week's show.
Mastering the Tension Loop will give you the kind of power over women that, at first, might scare you. But if you're thinking that this is what I wanted to share with you, you're wrong.
So keep reading...
In a minute, you're going to learn a special type of Tension Loop I call "Push/Pull." If you aren't comfortable with the idea of having the power to generate attraction inside the women you desire, regardless of what they think of you, you might want to stop reading now!
What I'm about to reveal is Jedi mind *shit*. We're talking Yoda power! And you don't have to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits of Push/Pull. Every guy I've come into contact with, who is good with women, uses some form of Push/Pull.
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over the years I've heard dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground. My all time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him, "You're the best lover I've ever had." Things, then, alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover I've ever had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were a little worker bee, struggling to move up to thenumber three slot.
We can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is to only mess with her a bit. Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.
Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used probably over a thousand times...
At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise, "You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight...It makes me feel so happy inside!" She'll usually respond with, "Thank you!" Then I'll count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four." And then I'll push away her hand. More often than not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number one!" I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty."
Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at all (Note: once in while you'll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn't think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run away from these types of women, quickly). Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Push/Pull is the crème de la crème ofattraction tools. Master Push/Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction toward you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance. Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm only scratching the surface of Push/Pull. In my book, you'll learn six types ofPush/Pull: Intentional Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll discover body language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about a powerful Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a woman...even if she tells you, she's not attracted to you. My book isthe only place on the planet where you'll learn about Push/Pull. This, however, only scratches the surface of what you'll gain from my attraction guide. It's a complete education on attracting women,giving you the tools to transform yourself into the kind of man women feel attraction toward. Just think what it will be like tofinally have the skills and confidence to plop your butt in the driver's seat while interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to take your interactions with them in the direction you want. Start getting this area of your life taken care of right now by downloading my book.
Real World Seduction
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat
"Dr. of Attraction"
______________________________________________
Copyright 2005 Superior Living Inc. All rights reserved. "Swinggcat"
and "RealWorldSeduction" are trademarks of Superior Living Inc.
Important Note: Read this newsletter in its entirety because you're going to learn an attraction secret that less than one percent of the world's male population knows about!
The other day I was talking to a buddy of mine, a real rock star at attracting women, about, of all things, Bill Gates. We werediscussing how Gates's financial problems are vastly different from the average person. Bill spends his days fretting over ways to either make more money or sustain the money he has, while most people concern themselves with making money in the first place. The man lives in a completely different reality from most of us. As we were chatting about Mr. Microsoft, something dawned on us...
When it comes to succeeding with women, we realized, we live in a very different reality from most men. In our reality, generating attraction in women is as easy as taking a crap - little effort, yet feels great! The skills and tools for generating attraction are so ingrained in us that when interacting with gorgeous women, there's not even an iota of hemming and hawing over how to attract them. Our focus, instead, is on: using the attraction we already know we can generate in them to get our intended outcome. If there's a woman we're interested in, for example, we don't stand there stiff and stupefied, like a dear caught in headlights, wondering: "How in the world are we going to attract her?" We know, if we just chat with her for a few minutes, it's inevitable that she'll feel attraction toward us. That's why our focus is entirely on, even if we haven't yet said a word to her, using the attraction we already know we can generate in her to get our intended outcome.
But this isn't the reality of most men. "What to do in the wake of a woman feeling attraction toward you?" is a thought never crossing the minds of many a man - and rightfully so...because most can't evengenerate attraction inside women in the first place.
A few nights ago, for example, I was at a little bar down the street from my house. My friend and I watched a forty-somethingyear-old distinguished looking business man play the big passive bottom to the verbal gang bang of two twenty-one year old looking, sponge-brained rhymes-with-witches. The poor bastard attempted to attract these women the only ways he knew how: buying them drinks, giving them lots of compliments, and, worst of all, asking them if they thought his clothes are cool. Funny enough, the more he did these things, the crueler the girls acted toward him. This man was a walking, talking attraction death sentence.
Can you relate? Have you ever felt, every attempt to attract a woman was actually turning her off? Or have you experienced the frustration of trying to figure out why a woman was more attracted to your friend than you? Or maybe you've brooded: Attracting women is as difficult as a blind man trying to find a bobby pin on an open football field. I dunno?
Each scenario represents the reality of not knowing how to attract women. A reality I personally overstayed my welcome. I, however, have moved far away from this reality and now reside in a place where attracting women is cake.
I'm going to share something with you only known, for the most part, by people living in a reality where attracting women is aseasy as turning on a light switch. This is something I don't think I've ever talked about in a newsletter...and might never again. If you've read my book, you'll know what this is. If you've gone out and experimented with it, there's a good chance you understand the power behind it.
Before I get into this I'm going to review some attraction basics.
Realize this: Most women march through life to the rhythms of some drum most men will never hear. My job is to get you to hear those rhythms, so, you can start experiencing massive success with women.Attraction is neither how a woman judges you nor what she prefers. Women prefer men who are tall and dark and lumbered with boa constrictor sized wieners. Think of the guys featured in Calvin Klein, Guess, and Abercrombie catalogues. That's what women prefer! This probably isn't you, and certainly isn't me. But that's okay...because...the men women prefer and the men they feel attraction for are as similar as apples are to oranges. Attraction has very little to with preference. Attraction, instead, is the emotion of a woman wanting and reaching and chasing for more of a man.
This is why you hear many a woman talking about her experiences of feeling attraction toward men whom she finds ugly or as not filling the quota for what she considers to be her type. When you've mastered the mechanisms behind generating attraction, what a woman physically thinks of you will be the least of your concerns.
One of the most effective ways I've found for generating massive amounts of attraction in women, emotionally compelling them to want and reach and chase for more of you, is what I call "Tension Loops." The best part of using Tension Loops is that they generate heaps of attraction in women...regardless of your current looks,social status, or bank account.
A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! Thestructure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week's show.
Mastering the Tension Loop will give you the kind of power over women that, at first, might scare you. But if you're thinking that this is what I wanted to share with you, you're wrong.
So keep reading...
In a minute, you're going to learn a special type of Tension Loop I call "Push/Pull." If you aren't comfortable with the idea of having the power to generate attraction inside the women you desire, regardless of what they think of you, you might want to stop reading now!
What I'm about to reveal is Jedi mind *shit*. We're talking Yoda power! And you don't have to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits of Push/Pull. Every guy I've come into contact with, who is good with women, uses some form of Push/Pull.
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over the years I've heard dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground. My all time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him, "You're the best lover I've ever had." Things, then, alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover I've ever had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were a little worker bee, struggling to move up to thenumber three slot.
We can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is to only mess with her a bit. Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.
Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used probably over a thousand times...
At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise, "You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight...It makes me feel so happy inside!" She'll usually respond with, "Thank you!" Then I'll count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four." And then I'll push away her hand. More often than not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number one!" I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty."
Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at all (Note: once in while you'll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn't think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run away from these types of women, quickly). Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
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