By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction
A few months ago a girl came to my house
selling magazine subscriptions. When I
opened the door and hinted a willingness to
hear her spiel, she looked surprised. I
think I was the first person in my
neighborhood to actually listen to her. Most
people hate and avoid at all costs
door-to-door solicitors, fearing that
they'll be conned and swindled into buying
their wares. Not me. I love hearing a
salesman's pitch. Probably because - as
someone who's done a lot of sales - I take
a personal interest in analyzing other's
attempts at persuading me.
She was offering subscriptions to magazines
I enjoy reading. The money was going toward
helping troubled youth get into College - a
cause I wholeheartedly support!
But she would have had to hold me at gunpoint
to get even a single penny out of me. Was I
skeptical about where the magazine profits
were really going? Nope. I felt she was
completely honest with me.
Why couldn't she get me to crack? Am I a
cheap bastard? I can be - yet I would have
bought from her. But there was something
holding me back. Was it her sale's
presentation? For the most part - no! The
pitch she splurted out of her fast moving
lips was well crafted and persuasive. I
was slightly turned off by her plowing
through the sale's presentation at a
Speedy Gonzalez gait, sprinkled with
jerky, contrived hand gestures. Although,
not to the tune of dissuading me from
forking over the cash. What stopped me
from giving up the moolah was something
else...
She had a Weak Intent. She was lumbered
with the desire to make a quick sale - I
could see it her puppy dog eyes. She even
said all the necessary things to get me to
buy. Yet something was entirely lacking...
She didn't believe I would buy from her.
Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.
Read this sentence ten times aloud. Brand
your forehead with it if you have to. Do
whatever you have to do to internalize the
adage. This is something that all men who
are amazing with women get.
Women are repulsed by the needy. Human
beings across the board are repulsed by
the needy. This, I think, is part of our
biological hardwiring. Neediness is a
one-way ticket to squandering all possible
success with women. Do whatever you need
to do to purge yourself of it.
I'm the ex world champion at acting needy
with women. I had the desire to succeed
with them but not the belief.
It wasn't only the smart women who were
onto my weakness, the borderline dummies
were too. These girls weren't stupid enough
to get a handicapped parking space. And
were too smart to qualify for the
Special Olympics Games. But not by much.
If you look on their bookshelves, you'll
probably only find the two books: How to
strip and a made-easy-for-children version
of the bible. Even these girls, however,
could see, hear, feel, and smell my
weakness. I had the desire to succeed with
them but not the belief. I had a Weak
Intent. And as you now know...
Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.
These women saw me as one needy bitch -
and they were right.
Everything changed when I started
developing a mindset that every man who's
exceptional with women has: A Strong
Intent.
You might be thinking: "Hmm...what exactly
is a Strong Intent?"
Desire in the presence of belief is having
a Strong Intent. But I'm not talking about
any run-of-the-mill belief. The belief
has to be the unwavering certainty that
you'll achieve your intended outcome.
You could have all of the skills and
desire in the world but without the
unwavering certainty that you'll get what
you want, you're doomed.
One thing that has helped me tremendously
is rehearsing my intended outcome. So,
for example, if your goal is to kiss women
you've just met, maybe, rehearse in your
mind women brimming with the desire to
kiss you. Imagine women feeling elated
that you finally kissed them. Think of
them passionately kissing you back. The
more you rehearse these outcomes the more
unwavering your belief becomes that women
are yearning and willing to kiss you.
Here's a quick way of testing right now
how unwavering your beliefs are. If your
intended outcome, for example, was to
engage very beautiful in conversation,
could you follow through?
Even if you answered, "yes," it doesn't
mean you have the unwavering belief that
you can engage beautiful women.
Thinking you can do something is very
different from having the unwavering belief
that you can do something.
Years ago, for example, I was at a seminar
where the teacher purported to give men
confidence. Afterwards, many of the
attendees felt, they could talk to any
woman. But when push came to shove, I
discovered, they were scared to death of
approaching women. These men felt confident
yet had no confidence.
Here's a better test you can do right now.
Close your eyes and imagine a beautiful
woman five feat away from you. Go talk
to her right now without any hesitation.
Don't wait. Do it now. If you can't or feel
yourself wanting to wait a few minutes, you
don't yet have the unwavering belief. You
don't yet have the confidence. You don't
yet have a Strong Intent. But you can.
I can't even begin to describe to you just
how much success with women you're missing
out on by not having a Strong Intent. When
I was first learning how to attract women
I was frustrated because almost all of the
available material was geared toward making
men feel confident and think they could
accomplish their goals with women. But I
soon found out, to my chagrin, this
wasn't good enough. If I wanted to make my
dreams come true, I realized, I needed to
develop real confidence and the unwavering
beliefs that I could accomplish my goals. I
developed a fool-proof system, giving me
the tools to step-by-step develop
unwavering beliefs, confidence, and a
powerful intent, leading to massive
success with women. In my book you'll gain
access to this complete system,
irrevocability changing how women respond
to you for the rest of your life. This,
however, is only part of what you'll learn
from my book. You'll find hundreds of
powerful techniques, skills, and concepts
for attracting women you won't find
anywhere else in the world - period! Just
think what it will be like to finally have
the skills and confidence to plop your butt
in the driver's seat while interacting with
women, giving you the power and choice to
take your interactions with them in the
direction you want. Start getting this area
of your life taken care of right now by
downloading my book.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat
"Dr. Attraction"
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