A Mindset Every Guy Who's Good With Women Has...And You Can Develop

By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction

A few months ago a girl came to my house

selling magazine subscriptions. When I

opened the door and hinted a willingness to

hear her spiel, she looked surprised. I

think I was the first person in my

neighborhood to actually listen to her. Most

people hate and avoid at all costs

door-to-door solicitors, fearing that

they'll be conned and swindled into buying

their wares. Not me. I love hearing a

salesman's pitch. Probably because - as

someone who's done a lot of sales - I take

a personal interest in analyzing other's

attempts at persuading me.

She was offering subscriptions to magazines

I enjoy reading. The money was going toward

helping troubled youth get into College - a

cause I wholeheartedly support!

But she would have had to hold me at gunpoint

to get even a single penny out of me. Was I

skeptical about where the magazine profits

were really going? Nope. I felt she was

completely honest with me.

Why couldn't she get me to crack? Am I a

cheap bastard? I can be - yet I would have

bought from her. But there was something

holding me back. Was it her sale's

presentation? For the most part - no! The

pitch she splurted out of her fast moving

lips was well crafted and persuasive. I

was slightly turned off by her plowing

through the sale's presentation at a

Speedy Gonzalez gait, sprinkled with

jerky, contrived hand gestures. Although,

not to the tune of dissuading me from

forking over the cash. What stopped me

from giving up the moolah was something

else...

She had a Weak Intent. She was lumbered

with the desire to make a quick sale - I

could see it her puppy dog eyes. She even

said all the necessary things to get me to

buy. Yet something was entirely lacking...

She didn't believe I would buy from her.

Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.

Read this sentence ten times aloud. Brand

your forehead with it if you have to. Do

whatever you have to do to internalize the

adage. This is something that all men who

are amazing with women get.

Women are repulsed by the needy. Human

beings across the board are repulsed by

the needy. This, I think, is part of our

biological hardwiring. Neediness is a

one-way ticket to squandering all possible

success with women. Do whatever you need

to do to purge yourself of it.

I'm the ex world champion at acting needy

with women. I had the desire to succeed

with them but not the belief.

It wasn't only the smart women who were

onto my weakness, the borderline dummies

were too. These girls weren't stupid enough

to get a handicapped parking space. And

were too smart to qualify for the

Special Olympics Games. But not by much.

If you look on their bookshelves, you'll

probably only find the two books: How to

strip and a made-easy-for-children version

of the bible. Even these girls, however,

could see, hear, feel, and smell my

weakness. I had the desire to succeed with

them but not the belief. I had a Weak

Intent. And as you now know...

Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.

These women saw me as one needy bitch -

and they were right.

Everything changed when I started

developing a mindset that every man who's

exceptional with women has: A Strong

Intent.

You might be thinking: "Hmm...what exactly

is a Strong Intent?"

Desire in the presence of belief is having

a Strong Intent. But I'm not talking about

any run-of-the-mill belief. The belief

has to be the unwavering certainty that

you'll achieve your intended outcome.

You could have all of the skills and

desire in the world but without the

unwavering certainty that you'll get what

you want, you're doomed.

One thing that has helped me tremendously

is rehearsing my intended outcome. So,

for example, if your goal is to kiss women

you've just met, maybe, rehearse in your

mind women brimming with the desire to

kiss you. Imagine women feeling elated

that you finally kissed them. Think of

them passionately kissing you back. The

more you rehearse these outcomes the more

unwavering your belief becomes that women

are yearning and willing to kiss you.

Here's a quick way of testing right now

how unwavering your beliefs are. If your

intended outcome, for example, was to

engage very beautiful in conversation,

could you follow through?

Even if you answered, "yes," it doesn't

mean you have the unwavering belief that

you can engage beautiful women.

Thinking you can do something is very

different from having the unwavering belief

that you can do something.

Years ago, for example, I was at a seminar

where the teacher purported to give men

confidence. Afterwards, many of the

attendees felt, they could talk to any

woman. But when push came to shove, I

discovered, they were scared to death of

approaching women. These men felt confident

yet had no confidence.

Here's a better test you can do right now.

Close your eyes and imagine a beautiful

woman five feat away from you. Go talk

to her right now without any hesitation.

Don't wait. Do it now. If you can't or feel

yourself wanting to wait a few minutes, you

don't yet have the unwavering belief. You

don't yet have the confidence. You don't

yet have a Strong Intent. But you can.

I can't even begin to describe to you just

how much success with women you're missing

out on by not having a Strong Intent. When

I was first learning how to attract women

I was frustrated because almost all of the

available material was geared toward making

men feel confident and think they could

accomplish their goals with women. But I

soon found out, to my chagrin, this

wasn't good enough. If I wanted to make my

dreams come true, I realized, I needed to

develop real confidence and the unwavering

beliefs that I could accomplish my goals. I

developed a fool-proof system, giving me

the tools to step-by-step develop

unwavering beliefs, confidence, and a

powerful intent, leading to massive

success with women. In my book you'll gain

access to this complete system,

irrevocability changing how women respond

to you for the rest of your life. This,

however, is only part of what you'll learn

from my book. You'll find hundreds of

powerful techniques, skills, and concepts

for attracting women you won't find

anywhere else in the world - period! Just

think what it will be like to finally have

the skills and confidence to plop your butt

in the driver's seat while interacting with

women, giving you the power and choice to

take your interactions with them in the

direction you want. Start getting this area

of your life taken care of right now by

downloading my book.

Real World Seduction

Your Loyal Dating Coach,

Swinggcat

"Dr. Attraction"
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Copyright 2005 Superior Living Inc. All rights reserved. "Swinggcat" and
"RealWorldSeduction" are trademarks of SuperiorLiving Inc.

A Secret For Attracting Women Only The Pros Know...

By Swinggcat - author of Real World Seduction

Important Note: Read this newsletter in its entirety because you're going to learn an attraction secret that less than one percent of the world's male population knows about!

The other day I was talking to a buddy of mine, a real rock star at attracting women, about, of all things, Bill Gates. We werediscussing how Gates's financial problems are vastly different from the average person. Bill spends his days fretting over ways to either make more money or sustain the money he has, while most people concern themselves with making money in the first place. The man lives in a completely different reality from most of us. As we were chatting about Mr. Microsoft, something dawned on us...

When it comes to succeeding with women, we realized, we live in a very different reality from most men. In our reality, generating attraction in women is as easy as taking a crap - little effort, yet feels great! The skills and tools for generating attraction are so ingrained in us that when interacting with gorgeous women, there's not even an iota of hemming and hawing over how to attract them. Our focus, instead, is on: using the attraction we already know we can generate in them to get our intended outcome. If there's a woman we're interested in, for example, we don't stand there stiff and stupefied, like a dear caught in headlights, wondering: "How in the world are we going to attract her?" We know, if we just chat with her for a few minutes, it's inevitable that she'll feel attraction toward us. That's why our focus is entirely on, even if we haven't yet said a word to her, using the attraction we already know we can generate in her to get our intended outcome.

But this isn't the reality of most men. "What to do in the wake of a woman feeling attraction toward you?" is a thought never crossing the minds of many a man - and rightfully so...because most can't evengenerate attraction inside women in the first place.

A few nights ago, for example, I was at a little bar down the street from my house. My friend and I watched a forty-somethingyear-old distinguished looking business man play the big passive bottom to the verbal gang bang of two twenty-one year old looking, sponge-brained rhymes-with-witches. The poor bastard attempted to attract these women the only ways he knew how: buying them drinks, giving them lots of compliments, and, worst of all, asking them if they thought his clothes are cool. Funny enough, the more he did these things, the crueler the girls acted toward him. This man was a walking, talking attraction death sentence.

Can you relate? Have you ever felt, every attempt to attract a woman was actually turning her off? Or have you experienced the frustration of trying to figure out why a woman was more attracted to your friend than you? Or maybe you've brooded: Attracting women is as difficult as a blind man trying to find a bobby pin on an open football field. I dunno?
Each scenario represents the reality of not knowing how to attract women. A reality I personally overstayed my welcome. I, however, have moved far away from this reality and now reside in a place where attracting women is cake.

I'm going to share something with you only known, for the most part, by people living in a reality where attracting women is aseasy as turning on a light switch. This is something I don't think I've ever talked about in a newsletter...and might never again. If you've read my book, you'll know what this is. If you've gone out and experimented with it, there's a good chance you understand the power behind it.

Before I get into this I'm going to review some attraction basics.

Realize this: Most women march through life to the rhythms of some drum most men will never hear. My job is to get you to hear those rhythms, so, you can start experiencing massive success with women.Attraction is neither how a woman judges you nor what she prefers. Women prefer men who are tall and dark and lumbered with boa constrictor sized wieners. Think of the guys featured in Calvin Klein, Guess, and Abercrombie catalogues. That's what women prefer! This probably isn't you, and certainly isn't me. But that's okay...because...the men women prefer and the men they feel attraction for are as similar as apples are to oranges. Attraction has very little to with preference. Attraction, instead, is the emotion of a woman wanting and reaching and chasing for more of a man.

This is why you hear many a woman talking about her experiences of feeling attraction toward men whom she finds ugly or as not filling the quota for what she considers to be her type. When you've mastered the mechanisms behind generating attraction, what a woman physically thinks of you will be the least of your concerns.

One of the most effective ways I've found for generating massive amounts of attraction in women, emotionally compelling them to want and reach and chase for more of you, is what I call "Tension Loops." The best part of using Tension Loops is that they generate heaps of attraction in women...regardless of your current looks,social status, or bank account.

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! Thestructure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week's show.

Mastering the Tension Loop will give you the kind of power over women that, at first, might scare you. But if you're thinking that this is what I wanted to share with you, you're wrong.

So keep reading...

In a minute, you're going to learn a special type of Tension Loop I call "Push/Pull." If you aren't comfortable with the idea of having the power to generate attraction inside the women you desire, regardless of what they think of you, you might want to stop reading now!

What I'm about to reveal is Jedi mind *shit*. We're talking Yoda power! And you don't have to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits of Push/Pull. Every guy I've come into contact with, who is good with women, uses some form of Push/Pull.

Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?

Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over the years I've heard dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground. My all time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him, "You're the best lover I've ever had." Things, then, alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover I've ever had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were a little worker bee, struggling to move up to thenumber three slot.

We can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is to only mess with her a bit. Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.

Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used probably over a thousand times...

At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise, "You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight...It makes me feel so happy inside!" She'll usually respond with, "Thank you!" Then I'll count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four." And then I'll push away her hand. More often than not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number one!" I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty."

Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at all (Note: once in while you'll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn't think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run away from these types of women, quickly). Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Push/Pull is the crème de la crème ofattraction tools. Master Push/Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction toward you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance. Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm only scratching the surface of Push/Pull. In my book, you'll learn six types ofPush/Pull: Intentional Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll discover body language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about a powerful Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a woman...even if she tells you, she's not attracted to you. My book isthe only place on the planet where you'll learn about Push/Pull. This, however, only scratches the surface of what you'll gain from my attraction guide. It's a complete education on attracting women,giving you the tools to transform yourself into the kind of man women feel attraction toward. Just think what it will be like tofinally have the skills and confidence to plop your butt in the driver's seat while interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to take your interactions with them in the direction you want. Start getting this area of your life taken care of right now by downloading my book.

Real World Seduction

Your Loyal Dating Coach,

Swinggcat
"Dr. of Attraction"

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Copyright 2005 Superior Living Inc. All rights reserved. "Swinggcat"
and "RealWorldSeduction" are trademarks of Superior Living Inc.